What I learned from getting published in the New York Times' beloved column, and what I want aspiring Modern Love authors to know. *** Fellow writers and readers, let's be friends! Connect with me on Twitter . Modern Love has been called the “American Idol” of aspiring memoirists —and for good reason. The New York Times column has inspired a star-studded podcast, a television show, and some 50 or 60 book deals. And an acceptance is hard to come by. Even before the column exp